This is the last one I'll share -
Finally we were told: it was cancer. Our surgeon stopped by this afternoon to tell us that news. He said we should expect to see the oncologist that evening, or over the weekend, and we could start planning treatment. Cancer is something you never ever think your child will get. Isn't it just for old people or smokers? Not your everyday average four year old. We had a lot of decisions to make. We had been told by so many people that St. Jude Children's Research Hospital was the best place to go. We were told by our local hospital that they could do anything St. Jude could do. What we were never told was what that was exactly. The oncologist never came to see us and tell us what our options were. We waited and waited. We mentioned this to the doctors who made morning rounds day after day. We met one who was very concerned about this and encouraged us to go over the oncologist head for answers. We eventually took this as a sign. This sign would be one more thing pointed us to our final desitination
We sat down with our family one night and asked everyone's opinion. We waited and listened to what everyone thought. I had already discussed at length leaving home and going somewhere else for treatment with on of the nurses who had done just that with her child years before. When it really came down to a decision - there wasn't one to be made. St Jude was the best at treating childhood cancer. As my dad said "why go to someone who can do the same as someone else, when you can go directly to the source?" So, that's what we did.
We made plans for someone to take care of our house and yard. We forwarded our mail to my parent's house. They very generously offered to take care of our bills so we could both go to Memphis and be there together with Cole. We were amazed at their generosity, as well as the kindness of strangers. So many people were doing things for us to lend their support.
Less than one month after finding out about the tumor, we dropped out of school, turned in our notice to our jobs and packed up our band new van with everything we thought we could need for 8 weeks and left town. We left our family and friends and headed into uncharted territory. What we would find was the best place in the world! We would find doctors and nurses who would love and care for Cole as if he were their own. We found friends that will last a life time. We found hope, courage, strength and community.
I wouldn't wish this experience on anyone in the world. I certainly wish this it had never happened to us, but looking back, I wouldn't give anything for the experiences we had during this time. The lessons learned will continue to educate us for the rest of our lives.
*****
Just wanted to add, at the time, our hospital in Mobile had one oncologist - only one. They hadn't had a brain tumor kid there in at least ten years. I feel like they did the best they could with what they had. The oncologist finally came to see us but it was the night before we were scheduled to be transported by ambulance, with the van following, to Memphis. Memphis will forever hold a large piece of my heart. The city loves those kids - there aren't tons of funny looks when you are wheeling through Target with your bald kid. No one stared when you quickly left a restaurant because your sweet bald baby boy just threw up on the table. Chick fil a would cook fresh chicken when Cole showed up. So many nice people cared for us there and loved Cole. One day I hope we can give back more than we've done so far. One day, I want to teach there and have Cole there volunteering and playing with kids. I want to be one of those people loving on those sweet babies, hanging out with the teens and painting the girls nails. I want to be there.
It's still a little sad when we go back for check ups - always worried if something will come back - always worried about test results. But it makes me happy at the same time, if that makes sense. We have friends that don't go for check ups because their babies earned their wings and are looking down on us now. I'm so very thankful that's not us, and I'll remember those babies forever.
We were lucky, blessed and fortunate. I'll never take that for granted!!!
Thanks for reading along - if you made it all the way through!!
lisa
Monday, February 18, 2013
Monday, February 11, 2013
February 11th and 13th, 2005 - we've come so far since then!
This is what I wrote about Cole's birthday, eight years ago.
Happy Birthday Cole! Finally we're in a regular room, things got much better for all of us. We were all sleeping in the same room, when we could sleep, that is. Somehow, Jason and I had been sleeping together in one of those tiny fold out chairs. Cole was able to get out of bed and ride around in a wagon or play in the playroom and eventually, was able to get down in the floor and play. There were improvements each day. But still we waited and waited to hear the results of the tumor.
In the meantime, several follow up MRI's were done to ensure that no cells remained. We were relieved to hear good results. It was indeed totally resected and there were no additional tumors anywhere else. We had the same technician each time that we had the first time. At this point, after surgery and once we knew the tumor was really gone, we were much more at ease and even able to tease the technician a little about working on his poker face. I can't imagine how hard it is for the medical staff to know things are bad and hide it from the patient and families.
While waiting for one MRI to finish up, I was talking with the surgeon in the hallway. We told him that, thanks to my dad, we had read about this new pinpoint radiation St. Jude was doing. It limits the amount of overall radiation to the brain. This is a huge development when you think about shooting something at your child's brain that could possibly harm his learning later in life. I recall the conversation ending with the doctor saying "you can't have your cake and eat it, too." This was his response when I told him that we expected Cole to develop, physically and cognitively, like any other child and that we would base our decisions for treatment on what would give us that result.
During this time, I was diligently searching for information and came across a message board for parents of children with brain tumors. They became my support system while we were in Mobile. Many moms told me who their doctors where and most suggested we get to St. Jude. We continued to have this in the back of our heads, but wanted to find out what the results were first. In the meantime, we contacted St. Jude, just to see what it was all about.
February 13th
We decided to have a huge birthday party for Cole today. We already had a cake my mom had made and all the things ready for his party at home. We just brought the celebration to our giant hospital room and celebrated away. Cole was able to sit with his Daddy and unwrap his gifts. We planned a Wiggly birthday party, but it quickly turned into a Thomas the Tank party. I think he ended up with every Thomas toy available in Mobile.
**** Cole's turning twelve today and eight years ago, I never gave a thought to what this day would look like. I'm hoping it's everything he wants it to be and more. I pray each of his days are always the best!
Lisa
Happy Birthday Cole! Finally we're in a regular room, things got much better for all of us. We were all sleeping in the same room, when we could sleep, that is. Somehow, Jason and I had been sleeping together in one of those tiny fold out chairs. Cole was able to get out of bed and ride around in a wagon or play in the playroom and eventually, was able to get down in the floor and play. There were improvements each day. But still we waited and waited to hear the results of the tumor.
In the meantime, several follow up MRI's were done to ensure that no cells remained. We were relieved to hear good results. It was indeed totally resected and there were no additional tumors anywhere else. We had the same technician each time that we had the first time. At this point, after surgery and once we knew the tumor was really gone, we were much more at ease and even able to tease the technician a little about working on his poker face. I can't imagine how hard it is for the medical staff to know things are bad and hide it from the patient and families.
While waiting for one MRI to finish up, I was talking with the surgeon in the hallway. We told him that, thanks to my dad, we had read about this new pinpoint radiation St. Jude was doing. It limits the amount of overall radiation to the brain. This is a huge development when you think about shooting something at your child's brain that could possibly harm his learning later in life. I recall the conversation ending with the doctor saying "you can't have your cake and eat it, too." This was his response when I told him that we expected Cole to develop, physically and cognitively, like any other child and that we would base our decisions for treatment on what would give us that result.
During this time, I was diligently searching for information and came across a message board for parents of children with brain tumors. They became my support system while we were in Mobile. Many moms told me who their doctors where and most suggested we get to St. Jude. We continued to have this in the back of our heads, but wanted to find out what the results were first. In the meantime, we contacted St. Jude, just to see what it was all about.
February 13th
We decided to have a huge birthday party for Cole today. We already had a cake my mom had made and all the things ready for his party at home. We just brought the celebration to our giant hospital room and celebrated away. Cole was able to sit with his Daddy and unwrap his gifts. We planned a Wiggly birthday party, but it quickly turned into a Thomas the Tank party. I think he ended up with every Thomas toy available in Mobile.
**** Cole's turning twelve today and eight years ago, I never gave a thought to what this day would look like. I'm hoping it's everything he wants it to be and more. I pray each of his days are always the best!
Lisa
Wednesday, February 6, 2013
February 6th, 2005 through the 9th
A little more coming at you...........
Just six days after brain surgery, Cole was sent home. I was scared to death. I didn't think he should be sent home yet. He was still of steroids and still having problems just turning his head. The doctor on call assured us that everything was ok and Cole would do better at home. So home we went.
Cole did seem to improve slowly over the next day or so. He was very swollen from steroids when we left the hospital and we saw improvements soon after being home. He even rolled over in his bed on his own. February 8th was Fat Tuesday. Cole celebrated it by sleeping, and sleeping and sleeping some more. One whole day. We would wake him up to eat and he would immediately fall right back to sleep. He had a low fever which the nurse said was ok and not a big deal.
The next morning, we woke up to a 105 temperature It was indeed a big deal now. We rushed to the emergency room. They determined Cole had an infection of some sort, possibly staff, and maybe meningitis. We were more scared at that moment than any other in the weeks before. We watched a doctor and nurse insert an IV in each of his little hands and proceed to do a spinal tap. Cole didn't even cry. He barely flinched for each needle. Later we realized what a miraculous thing that was. He's had so many spinal taps, or lumbar punctures since then that we lost count. Each time after that, he would have to be sedated for the procedure. It was very rare for a child to be awake during such a thing.
Once the antibiotics were flowing and the temperature was down, things got much better. Cole was back to his new self. He was trying to move around in the bed and talking and laughing. By that afternoon, we felt relief once again. We went back to ICU and would remain there for several more nights.
The pediatric oncologist visited with us many times and let us know that they sent tumor tissue to other hospitals for second and third opinions. We asked for a fourth - St Jude Children's Research Hospital. In this day of technology, you can't search for pediatric cancer on the internet and not find a link to this hospital, so we thought they should be checking on Cole, as well.
*** Those days seems so long, buy my thoughts about them just a year later were much shorter that I expected. I haven't read this is a very long time - but I'll never forget!!
Lisa
Just six days after brain surgery, Cole was sent home. I was scared to death. I didn't think he should be sent home yet. He was still of steroids and still having problems just turning his head. The doctor on call assured us that everything was ok and Cole would do better at home. So home we went.
Cole did seem to improve slowly over the next day or so. He was very swollen from steroids when we left the hospital and we saw improvements soon after being home. He even rolled over in his bed on his own. February 8th was Fat Tuesday. Cole celebrated it by sleeping, and sleeping and sleeping some more. One whole day. We would wake him up to eat and he would immediately fall right back to sleep. He had a low fever which the nurse said was ok and not a big deal.
The next morning, we woke up to a 105 temperature It was indeed a big deal now. We rushed to the emergency room. They determined Cole had an infection of some sort, possibly staff, and maybe meningitis. We were more scared at that moment than any other in the weeks before. We watched a doctor and nurse insert an IV in each of his little hands and proceed to do a spinal tap. Cole didn't even cry. He barely flinched for each needle. Later we realized what a miraculous thing that was. He's had so many spinal taps, or lumbar punctures since then that we lost count. Each time after that, he would have to be sedated for the procedure. It was very rare for a child to be awake during such a thing.
Once the antibiotics were flowing and the temperature was down, things got much better. Cole was back to his new self. He was trying to move around in the bed and talking and laughing. By that afternoon, we felt relief once again. We went back to ICU and would remain there for several more nights.
The pediatric oncologist visited with us many times and let us know that they sent tumor tissue to other hospitals for second and third opinions. We asked for a fourth - St Jude Children's Research Hospital. In this day of technology, you can't search for pediatric cancer on the internet and not find a link to this hospital, so we thought they should be checking on Cole, as well.
*** Those days seems so long, buy my thoughts about them just a year later were much shorter that I expected. I haven't read this is a very long time - but I'll never forget!!
Lisa
Tuesday, February 5, 2013
February 5th, 2005
A little more of Cole's journey - this is what I wrote about February 5th, eight years ago.
As a result of not being able to move around, Cole was very stiff. He would cry in pain when we tried to move him to his right side instead of the left he had been on for so long. Once we got him to lie on the right side, this helped the stiffness, but we noticed how weak the left side was now. This was nerve damage from the surgery.
Days later, we were moved out of ICU and into a small room on the regular floor. Unfortunately, we still had the baby crib though. A neurologist came to see us and talk about the future. His idea of Cole's future and ours didn't go well together. He was very discouraging. This was the first time we had every been faced with a doctor that told us so bluntly what to expect. We would later realize that he was giving us the worst case scenario and that wasn't acceptable to the three of us. Later, Cole would prove this to be true and he continued to fight so hard to be a typical little boy!
***I remember being so worried about Cole not ever being able to use his left hand again, being able to walk, etc. Later we were told to get used to a walker, or even a wheelchair. Well, Cole showed them!! Thank God for that!!
Lisa
As a result of not being able to move around, Cole was very stiff. He would cry in pain when we tried to move him to his right side instead of the left he had been on for so long. Once we got him to lie on the right side, this helped the stiffness, but we noticed how weak the left side was now. This was nerve damage from the surgery.
Days later, we were moved out of ICU and into a small room on the regular floor. Unfortunately, we still had the baby crib though. A neurologist came to see us and talk about the future. His idea of Cole's future and ours didn't go well together. He was very discouraging. This was the first time we had every been faced with a doctor that told us so bluntly what to expect. We would later realize that he was giving us the worst case scenario and that wasn't acceptable to the three of us. Later, Cole would prove this to be true and he continued to fight so hard to be a typical little boy!
***I remember being so worried about Cole not ever being able to use his left hand again, being able to walk, etc. Later we were told to get used to a walker, or even a wheelchair. Well, Cole showed them!! Thank God for that!!
Lisa
Thursday, January 31, 2013
January 31st, 2005
This is it - THE day!
We tried to keep Cole occupied with toys and treats and movies until surgery Monday morning. This is when his addiction to puzzles began. We had a few before this, but suddenly that's all he wanted to do. Each time someone left and returned for a visit, they had another puzzle. I think by the time we got out of the hospital in Mobile, we had about 40 puzzles.
Once the big day came, we didn't know what to expect. The hospital was wonderful to us. They had a very large room available for Jason and I, along with all our friends and family. We took Cole down for his surgery and waited for the team of nurses to take him back, once again. Just a few minutes before it was time for him to be taken back, he fell asleep. Our prayers were answered a second time.
Finally, surgery was over and the doctor came to see us. He told us everything went well. He was able to remove the entire tumor. This is about the time when that terrible word was mentioned - cancer. We would have to wait to get results of the tumor, to know if it was cancerous or not. This is where the numbers came in to the equation. 75% of this type of tumor are cancerous. It's the best type of brain tumor to have. Right, you're saying - there's a good brain tumor? If 75% are cancerous, that means 25% aren't, and that's got to be us. The doctor liked that we were optimistic, but continued to handle the situation as if we were the 75%. He told us the pediatric oncologist would come see us and give us some books and pamphlets and as soon as they had the word, they would let us know if it was cancer or not.
We knew that there could be complications from surgery. We knew that he would have a lot of stitches. We knew that he might not be able to focus and see us well that first day, since his eyes may have some nerve damage. What we didn't know is that he would barely be able to move. The drain was in place again and Cole had to lie in a certain position for that to work properly. This meant we couldn't pick him up and hold him for a few days.
Since he had to lie in a certain position, he just laid in his hospital bed in the ICU, listening to his favorite movies. He couldn't focus to see the television, but he could hear every word. He knew five seconds before the movie was over that it was the end and would quickly request the next movie.
***It seems like I had more to say leading up to this day than on this day.
Again, thanks for reading and letting me share!!
Lisa
We tried to keep Cole occupied with toys and treats and movies until surgery Monday morning. This is when his addiction to puzzles began. We had a few before this, but suddenly that's all he wanted to do. Each time someone left and returned for a visit, they had another puzzle. I think by the time we got out of the hospital in Mobile, we had about 40 puzzles.
Once the big day came, we didn't know what to expect. The hospital was wonderful to us. They had a very large room available for Jason and I, along with all our friends and family. We took Cole down for his surgery and waited for the team of nurses to take him back, once again. Just a few minutes before it was time for him to be taken back, he fell asleep. Our prayers were answered a second time.
Finally, surgery was over and the doctor came to see us. He told us everything went well. He was able to remove the entire tumor. This is about the time when that terrible word was mentioned - cancer. We would have to wait to get results of the tumor, to know if it was cancerous or not. This is where the numbers came in to the equation. 75% of this type of tumor are cancerous. It's the best type of brain tumor to have. Right, you're saying - there's a good brain tumor? If 75% are cancerous, that means 25% aren't, and that's got to be us. The doctor liked that we were optimistic, but continued to handle the situation as if we were the 75%. He told us the pediatric oncologist would come see us and give us some books and pamphlets and as soon as they had the word, they would let us know if it was cancer or not.
We knew that there could be complications from surgery. We knew that he would have a lot of stitches. We knew that he might not be able to focus and see us well that first day, since his eyes may have some nerve damage. What we didn't know is that he would barely be able to move. The drain was in place again and Cole had to lie in a certain position for that to work properly. This meant we couldn't pick him up and hold him for a few days.
Since he had to lie in a certain position, he just laid in his hospital bed in the ICU, listening to his favorite movies. He couldn't focus to see the television, but he could hear every word. He knew five seconds before the movie was over that it was the end and would quickly request the next movie.
***It seems like I had more to say leading up to this day than on this day.
Again, thanks for reading and letting me share!!
Lisa
Monday, January 28, 2013
January 28th, 2005
Continuing on Cole's story - here's what I wrote on January 28th, 2005:
We went to the hospital this morning packed for the weekend. Before we left, we took a picture of Cole standing by the front door, ready to go. It was the last picture of the old Cole we would have. We stopped at WalMart for a toy, some snacks, possibly peace of mind that some part of the world was still normal.
The first procedure was to place a temporary shunt in Cole's head to drain the fluid that was causing so much pressure. We headed to surgery where we would be with Cole until they were ready for him. The plan was that a nurse would take him back to surgery but we could be with his while they did a little paper work and got everything ready. This was very scary since Cole would be awake and have to leave us with some strange nurse he didn't know. We prayed and prayed that Cole would fall asleep before they took him. Just in time, our prayers were answered.
This was a fairly quick procedure that left Cole with a shaved head and bandaged head. He was so brave and strong, we were amazed. When he woke up, he was very upset and scared. He immediately wanted his daddy. Cole was normally a Mommy's baby, so to want Daddy was strange for me. In one way, I was sad he wanted someone else, in another relieved because I was scared to pick him up and possibly hurt anything. He was hooked up to so many wires and tubes. Jason say in recovery holding Cole, praying, crying and gaining strength he would need for this journey. Later, he told me that this was a journey from him and Cole. He felt like several things had happened to him recently that prepared him for this. I didn't ask for an explanation. I knew that it probably wasn't something he could put into words. I was so proud of him for being the wonderful father that he is, but I was heartbroken at the same time. Cole didn't need me at a time when I desperately needed him!
The weekend was filled with many visitors and prayers for our baby, while he was in ICU. We were overwhelmed by the outpouring of love and care for us and Cole. The thing that surprised me the most was how brave Cole was. He simply adapted to this new situation with such ease. His bandage on his head was larger than necessary to keep him from touching the incision. The end of the bandage was tied into several knots and Cole decided that he had a tail just like Eeyore. He told everyone around that he had a tail like Eeyore. He loved it. He also asked everyone for a toy when they came to visit. So the spoiling would begin.
In ICU he was in a hospital baby crib. It was terrible for us not to be able to snuggle up there with him. But with the spoiling came lots of cuddly soft stuffed animals that kept him company. He also snuggled a ton with his baby blanket, which was mine when I was a baby.
Again, WOW - I'm so amazed by Cole, each and every day!!
Lisa
We went to the hospital this morning packed for the weekend. Before we left, we took a picture of Cole standing by the front door, ready to go. It was the last picture of the old Cole we would have. We stopped at WalMart for a toy, some snacks, possibly peace of mind that some part of the world was still normal.
The first procedure was to place a temporary shunt in Cole's head to drain the fluid that was causing so much pressure. We headed to surgery where we would be with Cole until they were ready for him. The plan was that a nurse would take him back to surgery but we could be with his while they did a little paper work and got everything ready. This was very scary since Cole would be awake and have to leave us with some strange nurse he didn't know. We prayed and prayed that Cole would fall asleep before they took him. Just in time, our prayers were answered.
This was a fairly quick procedure that left Cole with a shaved head and bandaged head. He was so brave and strong, we were amazed. When he woke up, he was very upset and scared. He immediately wanted his daddy. Cole was normally a Mommy's baby, so to want Daddy was strange for me. In one way, I was sad he wanted someone else, in another relieved because I was scared to pick him up and possibly hurt anything. He was hooked up to so many wires and tubes. Jason say in recovery holding Cole, praying, crying and gaining strength he would need for this journey. Later, he told me that this was a journey from him and Cole. He felt like several things had happened to him recently that prepared him for this. I didn't ask for an explanation. I knew that it probably wasn't something he could put into words. I was so proud of him for being the wonderful father that he is, but I was heartbroken at the same time. Cole didn't need me at a time when I desperately needed him!
The weekend was filled with many visitors and prayers for our baby, while he was in ICU. We were overwhelmed by the outpouring of love and care for us and Cole. The thing that surprised me the most was how brave Cole was. He simply adapted to this new situation with such ease. His bandage on his head was larger than necessary to keep him from touching the incision. The end of the bandage was tied into several knots and Cole decided that he had a tail just like Eeyore. He told everyone around that he had a tail like Eeyore. He loved it. He also asked everyone for a toy when they came to visit. So the spoiling would begin.
In ICU he was in a hospital baby crib. It was terrible for us not to be able to snuggle up there with him. But with the spoiling came lots of cuddly soft stuffed animals that kept him company. He also snuggled a ton with his baby blanket, which was mine when I was a baby.
Again, WOW - I'm so amazed by Cole, each and every day!!
Lisa
Sunday, January 27, 2013
Eight years ago
This is something I wrote in 2006 about this day, eight years ago. I just wanted to share here. Be prepared, it's long!!! (many more entries to follow in the coming weeks)
January 27th, 2005
We were pretty nervous about the MRI and didn't really explain to Cole what would happen. We got to the hospital bright and early on Thursday morning and waited for our turn. the radiologist came to speak with us and explain the MRI and the possibilities of IV and complications that could occur. The radiologist told us about contrast and that they use this occasionally to get a more detailed scan. He said it was rare that this was even needed. This was one less thing for us to worry about. We hated the thought of an IV in his little hand. Right after Cole received his sleepy medicine, Maw Maw, Paw Paw and Grandma showed up to be there with us. We had a hard time getting Cole to settle down and fall asleep for the MRI, even with the sedation medicine. When this finally happened, we went into the MRI room and watched him get placed on the table and hooked up to monitors. We were able to stay in the room with him during the enter MRI. It was so loud they gave us ear plugs. I'm not sure how he could sleep through it, even with the sleepy medicine.
Just when we thought they should be finished, the technician came in. We asked if there was a problem and he said "Oh, we're just running contrast." We instantly knew. Neither of us mentioned what this meant, but we knew. I will never forget the look on the technician's face. He knew, too.
Around 10:00 am the MRI was finally finished and we headed home. Cole was begging to stop at the book store, his favorite place. He was still so out of it, we really wanted to go home and wait for him to wake up a bit more.
We were turning into our neighborhood when Jason's cell phone rang. He had an urgent message at work from our pediatrician. He returned his call right away. The doctor didn't ask where we were or the normal "are you sitting down?" that you would expect. He just said we suspect your son has a brain tumor. I think Jason almost took out three different mailboxes. What a call to receive while driving down the road.
The doctor told us we had an appointment with a brain surgeon at 2:00 pm that very afternoon. We had several hours to wait and just didn't know what to do with ourselves. A large amount of emotions were pouring through us. We made a few phone calls to family and tried to keep Cole entertained and shield him from our tears at the same time. Meanwhile, Cole is begging for the book store and the "Thomas the Tank" table. We finally headed to the bookstore and were met by the familiar sites we always loved: books, lots of books and that wonderful train table.
Jason's mom, dad and grandma were still with us and now his brother was on the way, too. As soon as he got the call from his mom, he left work and he and his wife checked their son out of school. Time seemed to be of the essence. They met us at the bookstore and tried to comfort us while we were at a loss for words. Jason played with Cole while the parents drank coffee and looked from one to another. Being the mom I am, I was looking for brain tumor books. As a whole, we get used to looking up anything on the internet and find answers. I actually asking the bookstore girl if they had any books on brain tumors. Little did I know what a broad topic I would be dealing with. They didn't have anything at all.
At two o'clock in the afternoon, on a beautiful sunny day, we entered the doctor's office. We being me, Jason, Cole, Grandma Jean, Maw Maw, Paw Paw, Uncle D, Jamie and Michael. We asked for the biggest room they had. We were our of luck. The only place we could all fit was the waiting room. The doctor was stuck at the hospital in surgery so we weren't sure how long our wait would be. After waiting in an exam room for hours to see him, we were really nervous and anxious. The rest of the family was still sitting in the waiting room, just as anxious and nervous as we were.
Once the doctor finally arrived, he gave us the results. It was a brain tumor. They suspected medulloblastoma, which is a brain tumor located in the back of the brain. This certainly explained all the symptoms. The tumor was putting pressure on the part of the brain that causes the vomiting reflex, and also stopped the flow of the cerebral fluid, therefore, giving him headaches. The crossing was a direct result of the location of the tumor, as well.
Within fifteen minutes of shaking the very hand that would save my sons life, I was at ease. Later, I realized I was also very naive. In my memories of that day, cancer was never mentioned, although Jason swears it was. Long term side effects were not spoken of. Just strictly here's the problem, here's the solution. The doctor told us that they could do a small procedure to relieve the pressure from the fluid build up and then do surgery. We asked when and he said tomorrow. I didn't think anything would happen this quickly. It all seemed so cut and dry.
We asked the doctor how many times he had done this surgery and what would happen. He said he has performed brain surgery 100's of times. He had moved to Mobile just the month before. Had we been diagnosed any earlier, he wouldn't have been available. We would have had to leave the comfort and security of our home and travel without out family to some strange place to have Cole taken care of. As must as we would have loved to not have Cole sick for those six previous months, we realized how lucky we were that the tumor was found when it was. This was out second encounter with luck now. The doctor informed us that he would follow Cole forever to ensure this would never return again. He also said he would pray for Cole. That said more to me than anything else.
We all headed to McDonald's afterwards, for a happy meal for Cole and then went home. We made phone calls and explained what would happen to everyone we knew. What a mouthful of information to understand. We were sad and we were tired. Our family stayed with us for a while, playing with Cole and running to go get dinner no one could eat. I returned to my cozy bedroom to lie down. There's just something about feeling bad, emotionally or physically, that a soft cozy bed can fix. I had been feeling so sick to my stomach since finding out. Jason found me huddled under the electric blanket and joined me. We tried to talk about it, but were at a loss. We had looked up this type of tumor on the internet, but found no website that said your child will be fine, don't worry. It was a very long restless night. In the meantime, Cole had been playing and enjoying being with his family, having no clue what would lie ahead for him.
WOW, just typing it out makes me remember each moment, movement and thought from that day.
I thank God that Cole is here and doing well!! He's our little miracle!
If you made it to the end, thanks for reading!!
Lisa
January 27th, 2005
We were pretty nervous about the MRI and didn't really explain to Cole what would happen. We got to the hospital bright and early on Thursday morning and waited for our turn. the radiologist came to speak with us and explain the MRI and the possibilities of IV and complications that could occur. The radiologist told us about contrast and that they use this occasionally to get a more detailed scan. He said it was rare that this was even needed. This was one less thing for us to worry about. We hated the thought of an IV in his little hand. Right after Cole received his sleepy medicine, Maw Maw, Paw Paw and Grandma showed up to be there with us. We had a hard time getting Cole to settle down and fall asleep for the MRI, even with the sedation medicine. When this finally happened, we went into the MRI room and watched him get placed on the table and hooked up to monitors. We were able to stay in the room with him during the enter MRI. It was so loud they gave us ear plugs. I'm not sure how he could sleep through it, even with the sleepy medicine.
Just when we thought they should be finished, the technician came in. We asked if there was a problem and he said "Oh, we're just running contrast." We instantly knew. Neither of us mentioned what this meant, but we knew. I will never forget the look on the technician's face. He knew, too.
Around 10:00 am the MRI was finally finished and we headed home. Cole was begging to stop at the book store, his favorite place. He was still so out of it, we really wanted to go home and wait for him to wake up a bit more.
We were turning into our neighborhood when Jason's cell phone rang. He had an urgent message at work from our pediatrician. He returned his call right away. The doctor didn't ask where we were or the normal "are you sitting down?" that you would expect. He just said we suspect your son has a brain tumor. I think Jason almost took out three different mailboxes. What a call to receive while driving down the road.
The doctor told us we had an appointment with a brain surgeon at 2:00 pm that very afternoon. We had several hours to wait and just didn't know what to do with ourselves. A large amount of emotions were pouring through us. We made a few phone calls to family and tried to keep Cole entertained and shield him from our tears at the same time. Meanwhile, Cole is begging for the book store and the "Thomas the Tank" table. We finally headed to the bookstore and were met by the familiar sites we always loved: books, lots of books and that wonderful train table.
Jason's mom, dad and grandma were still with us and now his brother was on the way, too. As soon as he got the call from his mom, he left work and he and his wife checked their son out of school. Time seemed to be of the essence. They met us at the bookstore and tried to comfort us while we were at a loss for words. Jason played with Cole while the parents drank coffee and looked from one to another. Being the mom I am, I was looking for brain tumor books. As a whole, we get used to looking up anything on the internet and find answers. I actually asking the bookstore girl if they had any books on brain tumors. Little did I know what a broad topic I would be dealing with. They didn't have anything at all.
At two o'clock in the afternoon, on a beautiful sunny day, we entered the doctor's office. We being me, Jason, Cole, Grandma Jean, Maw Maw, Paw Paw, Uncle D, Jamie and Michael. We asked for the biggest room they had. We were our of luck. The only place we could all fit was the waiting room. The doctor was stuck at the hospital in surgery so we weren't sure how long our wait would be. After waiting in an exam room for hours to see him, we were really nervous and anxious. The rest of the family was still sitting in the waiting room, just as anxious and nervous as we were.
Once the doctor finally arrived, he gave us the results. It was a brain tumor. They suspected medulloblastoma, which is a brain tumor located in the back of the brain. This certainly explained all the symptoms. The tumor was putting pressure on the part of the brain that causes the vomiting reflex, and also stopped the flow of the cerebral fluid, therefore, giving him headaches. The crossing was a direct result of the location of the tumor, as well.
Within fifteen minutes of shaking the very hand that would save my sons life, I was at ease. Later, I realized I was also very naive. In my memories of that day, cancer was never mentioned, although Jason swears it was. Long term side effects were not spoken of. Just strictly here's the problem, here's the solution. The doctor told us that they could do a small procedure to relieve the pressure from the fluid build up and then do surgery. We asked when and he said tomorrow. I didn't think anything would happen this quickly. It all seemed so cut and dry.
We asked the doctor how many times he had done this surgery and what would happen. He said he has performed brain surgery 100's of times. He had moved to Mobile just the month before. Had we been diagnosed any earlier, he wouldn't have been available. We would have had to leave the comfort and security of our home and travel without out family to some strange place to have Cole taken care of. As must as we would have loved to not have Cole sick for those six previous months, we realized how lucky we were that the tumor was found when it was. This was out second encounter with luck now. The doctor informed us that he would follow Cole forever to ensure this would never return again. He also said he would pray for Cole. That said more to me than anything else.
We all headed to McDonald's afterwards, for a happy meal for Cole and then went home. We made phone calls and explained what would happen to everyone we knew. What a mouthful of information to understand. We were sad and we were tired. Our family stayed with us for a while, playing with Cole and running to go get dinner no one could eat. I returned to my cozy bedroom to lie down. There's just something about feeling bad, emotionally or physically, that a soft cozy bed can fix. I had been feeling so sick to my stomach since finding out. Jason found me huddled under the electric blanket and joined me. We tried to talk about it, but were at a loss. We had looked up this type of tumor on the internet, but found no website that said your child will be fine, don't worry. It was a very long restless night. In the meantime, Cole had been playing and enjoying being with his family, having no clue what would lie ahead for him.
WOW, just typing it out makes me remember each moment, movement and thought from that day.
I thank God that Cole is here and doing well!! He's our little miracle!
If you made it to the end, thanks for reading!!
Lisa
Saturday, January 19, 2013
Book update
So, I mentioned that I wanted to read more this year. Thirty five books sounds like a lot but in reality I may read more than that in a year. I have no clue! Regardless, I'm going to track my books this year. I've already read Safe Haven by Nicholas Sparks and I've finished Ali's Pretty Lies by Sara Shephard. I started Burned by Sara Shephard this past week. So third week in January and I'm on my third book. Not too bad!!
What are you reading? Give me some suggestions!
Lisa
What are you reading? Give me some suggestions!
Lisa
Friday, January 4, 2013
Books, books and more books
So, I've been thinking about goals for 2013. I have promised myself that I'm going to scrapbook again. I'm going to try to do Project Life this year, but not a photo each day, more a summary of the week. Maybe three photos for each week? I haven't decided yet.
My other goal is that I really want to read more - although I read a lot already. I'm thinking of setting a goal to read 35 books this year. I'm not sure how many I usually read, but I've already finished one this year. So, here's to 35 books in 2013.
I'm going to start making a list of what all I want to read. I don't want to just read fiction either - which is all I really ever read - so I'm hoping to work in some non-fiction stuff, as well!
So, what are you working toward in 2013?
Lisa
My other goal is that I really want to read more - although I read a lot already. I'm thinking of setting a goal to read 35 books this year. I'm not sure how many I usually read, but I've already finished one this year. So, here's to 35 books in 2013.
I'm going to start making a list of what all I want to read. I don't want to just read fiction either - which is all I really ever read - so I'm hoping to work in some non-fiction stuff, as well!
So, what are you working toward in 2013?
Lisa
Tuesday, January 1, 2013
One Little Word 2013
So, it's that time again. This year my word is create. It's time to create again. Create craftiness for fun. Create memories and document them. Create more opportunities to show what I'm capable of at work. Create better relationships/friendships.
My BFF moved several hours away in September. It's still sad to me. I miss her just dropping by to tell me if my outfit is okay. I miss texting her random crap for no reason. I can still do that but I don't. She could be busy. I feel like she's so far now, I shouldn't bother her. I need to create that relationship again. Distance shouldn't matter.
Cole is changing so much. Growing up right before our eyes. I've pinned tons of things about mothers and sons. It's time to create moments for those things. Mother/son dates that don't involve running to Walmart. Things like that.
It's just time to create more. Live with less crap and clutter and create more things that are meaningful.
I'm going to do it!
What are you going to work on this year? Do you make resolutions?
Lisa
My BFF moved several hours away in September. It's still sad to me. I miss her just dropping by to tell me if my outfit is okay. I miss texting her random crap for no reason. I can still do that but I don't. She could be busy. I feel like she's so far now, I shouldn't bother her. I need to create that relationship again. Distance shouldn't matter.
Cole is changing so much. Growing up right before our eyes. I've pinned tons of things about mothers and sons. It's time to create moments for those things. Mother/son dates that don't involve running to Walmart. Things like that.
It's just time to create more. Live with less crap and clutter and create more things that are meaningful.
I'm going to do it!
What are you going to work on this year? Do you make resolutions?
Lisa
Happy New Year
Well, I just went back and read my blog post this time last year and wow! I failed at lots of things I wanted to accomplish. I didn't take more pictures. I didn't make it past the first month of Project Life. I'm not sure I was present enough. At least not as present as I thought I would be once I picked my One Little Word for 2012.
So what I'd I do? Well, I got a job. I started working in a self contained classroom as an aide with a wonderful teacher, another aide and some great kids. I really didn't think the special Ed or exceptional Ed world was for me. Until I was in it. I'm not sure if I ever talked about this here or not but I was scared to death of special/exceptional Ed when I was in college. I had a teacher that was very 'worst case scenario' all the time. She had me believing I'd have a kid in my room that had a full time nurse and they would be hooked up to ivs and feeding tubes during class! WHAT? I was scared. The next semester I spent numerous days in the doctors office with Cole while he was sick. Months later a cancer diagnosis would answer all our questions and even our prayers. Yes, I said that. But only in the sense that we had answers. And we could fix the problem finally. So God picked me up out of my safe little world and dropped me smack into the world of wheel chairs, ivs, never ending medical procedures and feeding tubes. I guess he showed me.
I wish I'd had the ability to pay a little more attention to the nudge from above.
We survived cancer and were made stronger because of it. We learned a lot. We went through a lot together. We tried to return to normal life but it did take a while. It was hard to leave behind the security of the hospital. I mean, St. Jude was the DisneyWorld of hospitals. Not much to worry about there. Thy took care of us. I spent so much time not worrying about the day to day stuff and just focused on keeping Cole happy. I never paid attention to the nudge.
Back to 2012. I loved the job I had and was told it was mine as long as I wanted it or until the principal found another place better suited for me. Then the summer sped along and I helped get our room ready. I love that part of teaching - creating a safe haven for the students. Something welcoming and warm. Somewhere they will love! Then the principal called. He had another plan. Sadly, it still wasn't a classroom. There was a classroom but he felt it wasn't the place for me. I trusted that and have been shown time and time again that he was right. I was right to trust him. Anyway, another position was available that he felt was more suited to what I'm trained to do. I was excited but sad at the same time. I would miss my kids. And I do miss them even though I see them each week in the halls at school. Quick little hugs are great!
This new position was a lateral move. Same title, same pay, different kids. I'm in nine if fervent classrooms now working with exceptional Ed kids. Kids that just need a little more help. Kids like Cole. I actually get to work with Cole a little and I live it.
The nudge is more present now. Almost like a shove. Why didn't I get a degree in ex Ed? Why did I not feel the nudge until recently? I just choose to ignore it I guess? Just pushed it aside. Don't worry, I'm not going back to school for ex Ed. But I do wish I'd made another choice. I may be employed full time already had I done ex Ed. But that's nothing I can change now. Not quickly anyway.
So, while I didn't scrapbook or photograph Cole more or document our life enough or be present in e dry situation I did get a job. I did learn what I can do. I did learn that by being so present at school, I got somewhere. My foot isn't just barely in the door anymore. My whole body is there. I'm on payroll. I'm paying into retirement. I have sick days. Well, not anymore because I had the flu the last week of school.
I was present somewhere. And it counted. I worked.
While my new word for 2013 will be from a different perspective, I still want to live in the present, be present!!!
How was your 2012? What was your best accomplishment?
Lisa
(No spell check or proofing. I'm typing on my new iPad that I won!!!! Sorry or not reading over my words)
So what I'd I do? Well, I got a job. I started working in a self contained classroom as an aide with a wonderful teacher, another aide and some great kids. I really didn't think the special Ed or exceptional Ed world was for me. Until I was in it. I'm not sure if I ever talked about this here or not but I was scared to death of special/exceptional Ed when I was in college. I had a teacher that was very 'worst case scenario' all the time. She had me believing I'd have a kid in my room that had a full time nurse and they would be hooked up to ivs and feeding tubes during class! WHAT? I was scared. The next semester I spent numerous days in the doctors office with Cole while he was sick. Months later a cancer diagnosis would answer all our questions and even our prayers. Yes, I said that. But only in the sense that we had answers. And we could fix the problem finally. So God picked me up out of my safe little world and dropped me smack into the world of wheel chairs, ivs, never ending medical procedures and feeding tubes. I guess he showed me.
I wish I'd had the ability to pay a little more attention to the nudge from above.
We survived cancer and were made stronger because of it. We learned a lot. We went through a lot together. We tried to return to normal life but it did take a while. It was hard to leave behind the security of the hospital. I mean, St. Jude was the DisneyWorld of hospitals. Not much to worry about there. Thy took care of us. I spent so much time not worrying about the day to day stuff and just focused on keeping Cole happy. I never paid attention to the nudge.
Back to 2012. I loved the job I had and was told it was mine as long as I wanted it or until the principal found another place better suited for me. Then the summer sped along and I helped get our room ready. I love that part of teaching - creating a safe haven for the students. Something welcoming and warm. Somewhere they will love! Then the principal called. He had another plan. Sadly, it still wasn't a classroom. There was a classroom but he felt it wasn't the place for me. I trusted that and have been shown time and time again that he was right. I was right to trust him. Anyway, another position was available that he felt was more suited to what I'm trained to do. I was excited but sad at the same time. I would miss my kids. And I do miss them even though I see them each week in the halls at school. Quick little hugs are great!
This new position was a lateral move. Same title, same pay, different kids. I'm in nine if fervent classrooms now working with exceptional Ed kids. Kids that just need a little more help. Kids like Cole. I actually get to work with Cole a little and I live it.
The nudge is more present now. Almost like a shove. Why didn't I get a degree in ex Ed? Why did I not feel the nudge until recently? I just choose to ignore it I guess? Just pushed it aside. Don't worry, I'm not going back to school for ex Ed. But I do wish I'd made another choice. I may be employed full time already had I done ex Ed. But that's nothing I can change now. Not quickly anyway.
So, while I didn't scrapbook or photograph Cole more or document our life enough or be present in e dry situation I did get a job. I did learn what I can do. I did learn that by being so present at school, I got somewhere. My foot isn't just barely in the door anymore. My whole body is there. I'm on payroll. I'm paying into retirement. I have sick days. Well, not anymore because I had the flu the last week of school.
I was present somewhere. And it counted. I worked.
While my new word for 2013 will be from a different perspective, I still want to live in the present, be present!!!
How was your 2012? What was your best accomplishment?
Lisa
(No spell check or proofing. I'm typing on my new iPad that I won!!!! Sorry or not reading over my words)
Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Hall of Presidents
So, I'm hosting a Disney Club at school and we're going to study this in November - have you seen it? It's great! One of our faves!
lisa
lisa
Sunday, September 23, 2012
18 things I wish I could master in the kitchen
We all have our favorite things to cook and the things we're really good at cooking, but then there are those recipes that you just can't master. Even though you follow every step of the recipe and make it the exact way your mom does, or your friend does, but it's not the same. Or things you've really wanted to make but haven't ever tried.
Here's my list of those things:
1. my mom's chocolate delight pie
2. paula deen's baked spaghetti
3. fried okra
4. any of my mom's recipes for her buttercream icing
5. specifically the peanut butter butter cream
6. meatloaf
7. beef tips and rice (my rice is never quite right)
8. mom's mac and cheese (mine is good, but not as good as hers)
9. twice baked potatoes (again - hers are better)
10. mom's apple cake
(so many recipes are my moms - wow)
11. Mrs. Antonio's lasagne
12. donuts
13. funnel cake
14. Pooh's puffed pastry
15. Dole whip
16. Dressing
17. Chicken salad - the really good kind
18. Mississippi mud
One day, I'll tackle them and master them! If I'm lucky!
Lisa
Here's my list of those things:
1. my mom's chocolate delight pie
2. paula deen's baked spaghetti
3. fried okra
4. any of my mom's recipes for her buttercream icing
5. specifically the peanut butter butter cream
6. meatloaf
7. beef tips and rice (my rice is never quite right)
8. mom's mac and cheese (mine is good, but not as good as hers)
9. twice baked potatoes (again - hers are better)
10. mom's apple cake
(so many recipes are my moms - wow)
11. Mrs. Antonio's lasagne
12. donuts
13. funnel cake
14. Pooh's puffed pastry
15. Dole whip
16. Dressing
17. Chicken salad - the really good kind
18. Mississippi mud
One day, I'll tackle them and master them! If I'm lucky!
Lisa
Saturday, September 22, 2012
18 places I'd like to visit
Well, it's time for another list. Here's a list of places I'd like to visit one day, or visit again since I haven't been there recently or often enough!
1. Paris, France
2. Ireland
3. Australia
4. Chicago (been there, but not in a while)
5. Savannah
6. New Orleans (again, been there, but it's been ten years)
7. Nashville (been there, but not with Jason and Cole)
8. Seattle
9. New York
10. Washington D.C.
11. Las Vegas
12. Hollywood
13. Beverly Hills
14. Key West
15. Anaheim
16. Denver
17. Mexico
18. Italy
Where do you want to go?
Thanks for stopping by!
Lisa
1. Paris, France
2. Ireland
3. Australia
4. Chicago (been there, but not in a while)
5. Savannah
6. New Orleans (again, been there, but it's been ten years)
7. Nashville (been there, but not with Jason and Cole)
8. Seattle
9. New York
10. Washington D.C.
11. Las Vegas
12. Hollywood
13. Beverly Hills
14. Key West
15. Anaheim
16. Denver
17. Mexico
18. Italy
Where do you want to go?
Thanks for stopping by!
Lisa
Friday, September 21, 2012
My favorite food
Another list today - so far so good, huh?
My favorite foods and drinks:
1. Diet Dr Pepper with Diet Cream Soda - half of each - yummy
2. White Hot Chocolate from Starbucks
3. Caramel Apple Cider from Starbucks
4. Brownies with peanut butter chips
5. Apple Dumplings (Pioneer Woman's recipe)
6. Twice baked potatoes (my mom's recipe)
7. Fire Cracker Chicken wraps at Longhorn
8. buffalo chicken from just about anywhere
9. the italian sandwich from Newk's - it's so so good
10. Quizno's italiano samy which isn't on the menu anymore
11. White Chocolate peanut butter
12. Cookie butter
13. Vanilla wafers
14. Marshmallows
15. Cheezits
16. Five Guys fries
17. TGIFriday's white chocolate cheese cake
18. tic tacs (do they count as food? it's my list so I'll say yes!!)
Lisa
My favorite foods and drinks:
1. Diet Dr Pepper with Diet Cream Soda - half of each - yummy
2. White Hot Chocolate from Starbucks
3. Caramel Apple Cider from Starbucks
4. Brownies with peanut butter chips
5. Apple Dumplings (Pioneer Woman's recipe)
6. Twice baked potatoes (my mom's recipe)
7. Fire Cracker Chicken wraps at Longhorn
8. buffalo chicken from just about anywhere
9. the italian sandwich from Newk's - it's so so good
10. Quizno's italiano samy which isn't on the menu anymore
11. White Chocolate peanut butter
12. Cookie butter
13. Vanilla wafers
14. Marshmallows
15. Cheezits
16. Five Guys fries
17. TGIFriday's white chocolate cheese cake
18. tic tacs (do they count as food? it's my list so I'll say yes!!)
Lisa
Thursday, September 20, 2012
Here's another list:
18 things I want to make off of Pinterest! Now, I've made tons off Pinterest and have even had one thing I made pinned a few times by other people (which was totally cool). These are things I've discovered recently or just haven't' tackled yet:
I had one of these frames, around a mirror. I've had it for years and when we decided to move back to Birmingham I put it in the yard sale pile. It didn't sale. Should have been a sign. But we were ready to leave all the junk behind that didn't sale. No time to haul it off somewhere. My father-in-law came and loaded it up and they were going to get rid of it. A year or so later, I saw my mirror in my sister-in-laws closet. Since then, I've mentioned about five times how I would love it back, if she's not using it. She's not but she hasn't given it back yet either. I really want it. I wouldn't do corks for the board but maybe cut some cork to fit instead.
I don't have a place to put this, but it's so cute!
I want to do this to my work keys but not sure I should since technically they don't belong to me. And I repinned this but it takes you no where when you click the pin. I hate when that happens.
18 things I want to make off of Pinterest! Now, I've made tons off Pinterest and have even had one thing I made pinned a few times by other people (which was totally cool). These are things I've discovered recently or just haven't' tackled yet:
I had one of these frames, around a mirror. I've had it for years and when we decided to move back to Birmingham I put it in the yard sale pile. It didn't sale. Should have been a sign. But we were ready to leave all the junk behind that didn't sale. No time to haul it off somewhere. My father-in-law came and loaded it up and they were going to get rid of it. A year or so later, I saw my mirror in my sister-in-laws closet. Since then, I've mentioned about five times how I would love it back, if she's not using it. She's not but she hasn't given it back yet either. I really want it. I wouldn't do corks for the board but maybe cut some cork to fit instead.
I don't have a place to put this, but it's so cute!
I want to do this to my work keys but not sure I should since technically they don't belong to me. And I repinned this but it takes you no where when you click the pin. I hate when that happens.
I love this scarf so much. I've seen so many I like and would love to make, but never take the time to make them!
I've been wanting to take a purse and turn it into a camera bag and even have the purse to use, but still haven't managed any further than that. This is really cool though - use in any bag that will hold it!
Now the following photos are all things I would like to paint on Burlap or Canvas:
The following are Halloween goodies I want to make:
Now onto Christmas crafts I want to make:
Loads of things I want to do - but not nearly enough time to do them in!
Thanks for stopping by!
Lisa
Wednesday, September 19, 2012
18 songs I love right now
Random thing to make a list of? Maybe. Typical of me? Yep!
1. Sing 'em Good my Friend - makes me want to cry when I hear it.
2. Call Me Maybe - silly, but fun.
3. Pontoon
4. Why Ya Wanna
5. Take a Little Ride
6. She's So Mean
7. We are Never Ever Getting Back Together - even though it gets stuck in my head for days.
8. Somebody that I Used to Know
9. Home
10. Want U Back
11. What Makes You Beautiful
12. We Are Young
13. Hard to Love
14. Come Over
15. Suspended
16. Sail On - the Tim McGraw/Lionel Richie version
17. 3 a.m. - the slow/acoustic version - another one that make me want to cry
18. Welcome to the Fishbowl
Random? Yes! All good songs? Of course!!
Thanks for stopping by!
lisa
1. Sing 'em Good my Friend - makes me want to cry when I hear it.
2. Call Me Maybe - silly, but fun.
3. Pontoon
4. Why Ya Wanna
5. Take a Little Ride
6. She's So Mean
7. We are Never Ever Getting Back Together - even though it gets stuck in my head for days.
8. Somebody that I Used to Know
9. Home
10. Want U Back
11. What Makes You Beautiful
12. We Are Young
13. Hard to Love
14. Come Over
15. Suspended
16. Sail On - the Tim McGraw/Lionel Richie version
17. 3 a.m. - the slow/acoustic version - another one that make me want to cry
18. Welcome to the Fishbowl
Random? Yes! All good songs? Of course!!
Thanks for stopping by!
lisa
Tuesday, September 18, 2012
Happy Birthday to me
Hey everyone! It's my birthday today and in an effort to blog more, I'm spending the rest of the month blogging everyday. I'm going to blog 18 things a day! (Since my birthday is on the 18th)
Here's today's eighteen!!
Eighteen things about me you probably already know but just in case you don't.........
1. I have a tattoo and want two more. Already have them picked out but Jason thinks I'm nuts, so I may never get them.
2. I love marshmallows but usually only eat them in the fall, unless they are peeps.
3. I changed jobs and didn't even mention it here. I'm still a paraprofessional, but now instead of working in a self contained room, I'm working with fourth and fifth graders. I help out in nine different classrooms. I should wear roller skates to school.
4. I can't roller skate.
5. I can't swim.
6. I hate, hate, hate water in my face - splashing in the pool always makes me angry.
7. My favorite singers are Kenny Chesney and Matt Nathanson and Matchbox Twenty.
8. I'm an Alabama fan through and through. I don't even want Auburn to win when they play anyone else. Sorry, but it's true.
9. I lost 50 pounds in 2007 and have kept all but about ten pounds off and those keep coming and going - it's like they can't decide if they want to be here or not. I'd rather them leave, honestly.
10. I love ice cream, but don't like chocolate too much. Only Baskin Robins Peanut Butter Chocolate.
11. I'd rather eat dessert than dinner.
12. I was fourteen when my two co-workers were born. This makes me feel old.
13. I used to scrapbook like crazy and now rarely do but I still love it and buy supplies just don't use them much.
14. I've painted more burlap and canvas in the last year than I ever thought I would paint. Just painted a little more Saturday.
15. I sewed curtains for our new trailer at school. They are cute. I've never sewn curtains before.
16. I love Vera Bradley stuff and can't wait to spend some birthday money on a new iPhone cover.
17. I'm bringing cake to work this week to celebrate my own birthday, but I'm using someone else's birthday as an excuse! Hey - you gotta go what you gotta do to get peanut butter cake from my mom!!
18. I'm forty-one today and my age used to never bother me, but now that I'm all the way in my forty's - not just knocking on the door. It bothers me. A little.
Thanks for coming by! Here's hoping I can really finish the month out blogging each day!
Lisa
Here's today's eighteen!!
Eighteen things about me you probably already know but just in case you don't.........
1. I have a tattoo and want two more. Already have them picked out but Jason thinks I'm nuts, so I may never get them.
2. I love marshmallows but usually only eat them in the fall, unless they are peeps.
3. I changed jobs and didn't even mention it here. I'm still a paraprofessional, but now instead of working in a self contained room, I'm working with fourth and fifth graders. I help out in nine different classrooms. I should wear roller skates to school.
4. I can't roller skate.
5. I can't swim.
6. I hate, hate, hate water in my face - splashing in the pool always makes me angry.
7. My favorite singers are Kenny Chesney and Matt Nathanson and Matchbox Twenty.
8. I'm an Alabama fan through and through. I don't even want Auburn to win when they play anyone else. Sorry, but it's true.
9. I lost 50 pounds in 2007 and have kept all but about ten pounds off and those keep coming and going - it's like they can't decide if they want to be here or not. I'd rather them leave, honestly.
10. I love ice cream, but don't like chocolate too much. Only Baskin Robins Peanut Butter Chocolate.
11. I'd rather eat dessert than dinner.
12. I was fourteen when my two co-workers were born. This makes me feel old.
13. I used to scrapbook like crazy and now rarely do but I still love it and buy supplies just don't use them much.
14. I've painted more burlap and canvas in the last year than I ever thought I would paint. Just painted a little more Saturday.
15. I sewed curtains for our new trailer at school. They are cute. I've never sewn curtains before.
16. I love Vera Bradley stuff and can't wait to spend some birthday money on a new iPhone cover.
17. I'm bringing cake to work this week to celebrate my own birthday, but I'm using someone else's birthday as an excuse! Hey - you gotta go what you gotta do to get peanut butter cake from my mom!!
18. I'm forty-one today and my age used to never bother me, but now that I'm all the way in my forty's - not just knocking on the door. It bothers me. A little.
Thanks for coming by! Here's hoping I can really finish the month out blogging each day!
Lisa
Saturday, September 15, 2012
Tutorial - book cover
Here's a tutorial I shared on the CSI Project a while ago - just forgot to share here. I noticed today I haven't posted in a month and a half. Sad!!
This must change - but for now, here's the tutorial:
Don't you just love Pinterest? Where else can you go to get inspiration on so many levels? There are so many times I've looked to Pinterest for ideas from what I want to cook for dinner to decorations for a baby shower or trying to find the perfect new outfit. I can't think of one thing I've gone on the hunt for through Pinterest that I haven't found several solutions or ideas. Pinterest has yet to let me down!! Now, if only I can actually use the inspiration and get some things done??? Hmmm...........
Here's a board I've been chipping away at lately: Makeover - Foyer. We have a large foyer but there's no real separation from the living area, except for the change in flooring, which is an old ugly tile. I've been really board with our foyer for some time. I finally spent a day and painted one wall in a darker color, as an accent to the rest of the living area. I slowly added some art work (most inspired by Pinterest, of course) but just didn't feel like it was finished.
The one thing causing a problem was this:
See it? An ugly alarm control panel. I just wanted to cover it up somehow. I thought about using a canvas but the ones I had on hand weren't thick enough, so I just ignored it for a while knowing the right thing would eventually come along.
Here's where Pinterest comes to the rescue:
I saw this and thought maybe I could make this work for the wall. Instead of using this to hide things away, I could use it to hide the panel.
I gathered my supplies - an old book, a craft knife and a ball point pen for starters. I will say that I love love love books. It's very hard for me to destroy a book. BUT, this particular book wasn't anything I had hard of before. It had a great cover and the pages were faded perfectly for craft projects, so I snatched it up. It's been sitting in a drawer for a while though, waiting for the perfect project. And this was it!!
Then I cut out the shape I had traced to use as a template for the back cover of the book.
I then traced my shape on the back of the book.
I cut it away and tested the back cover to see if it would slide over the control panel.
So, now the hard part. I used my craft knife, with the remaining back cover serving as a template, to start cutting away the pages inside.
Several pages are cut away here:
Then I realized that first, I was going to make a giant mess and second, I should have glued my book together first. So, I grabbed a few more supplies and continued working. I needed something to hold my book closed tightly so I grabbed an elastic headband and wrapped it around the book twice. I grabbed my Mod Podge and a foam brush and brushed on glue on the three sides of the exposed pages. I gave it an hour or so to dry and got back to cutting pages. I would probably do this step first if I attempt this project again.
It took a really long time to cut my pages out - I would test it to see if I was deep enough and wouldn't be, so back to slicing pages away. Finally, once it was deep enough, I decided to decorate the front of the book. There are three of us in our family so I cut out a three from some brown vinyl and added a twine bow.
Now, the true test. Will it really fit and look okay?
Yes!!! It looks great to me. It's a little odd - a book hanging on the wall, a little unexpected. But, I like it. Oh, you can see the canvas I added, as well. Something else I've seen around Pinterest, but not one specific pin inspired it, just a combination of ideas.
Thanks so much for reading!!
Lisa
This must change - but for now, here's the tutorial:
Don't you just love Pinterest? Where else can you go to get inspiration on so many levels? There are so many times I've looked to Pinterest for ideas from what I want to cook for dinner to decorations for a baby shower or trying to find the perfect new outfit. I can't think of one thing I've gone on the hunt for through Pinterest that I haven't found several solutions or ideas. Pinterest has yet to let me down!! Now, if only I can actually use the inspiration and get some things done??? Hmmm...........
Here's a board I've been chipping away at lately: Makeover - Foyer. We have a large foyer but there's no real separation from the living area, except for the change in flooring, which is an old ugly tile. I've been really board with our foyer for some time. I finally spent a day and painted one wall in a darker color, as an accent to the rest of the living area. I slowly added some art work (most inspired by Pinterest, of course) but just didn't feel like it was finished.
The one thing causing a problem was this:
See it? An ugly alarm control panel. I just wanted to cover it up somehow. I thought about using a canvas but the ones I had on hand weren't thick enough, so I just ignored it for a while knowing the right thing would eventually come along.
Here's where Pinterest comes to the rescue:
I saw this and thought maybe I could make this work for the wall. Instead of using this to hide things away, I could use it to hide the panel.
I gathered my supplies - an old book, a craft knife and a ball point pen for starters. I will say that I love love love books. It's very hard for me to destroy a book. BUT, this particular book wasn't anything I had hard of before. It had a great cover and the pages were faded perfectly for craft projects, so I snatched it up. It's been sitting in a drawer for a while though, waiting for the perfect project. And this was it!!
I took a page out of the book and used it to trace the area I wanted to cover.
Then I cut out the shape I had traced to use as a template for the back cover of the book.
I then traced my shape on the back of the book.
I cut it away and tested the back cover to see if it would slide over the control panel.
So, now the hard part. I used my craft knife, with the remaining back cover serving as a template, to start cutting away the pages inside.
Several pages are cut away here:
Then I realized that first, I was going to make a giant mess and second, I should have glued my book together first. So, I grabbed a few more supplies and continued working. I needed something to hold my book closed tightly so I grabbed an elastic headband and wrapped it around the book twice. I grabbed my Mod Podge and a foam brush and brushed on glue on the three sides of the exposed pages. I gave it an hour or so to dry and got back to cutting pages. I would probably do this step first if I attempt this project again.
It took a really long time to cut my pages out - I would test it to see if I was deep enough and wouldn't be, so back to slicing pages away. Finally, once it was deep enough, I decided to decorate the front of the book. There are three of us in our family so I cut out a three from some brown vinyl and added a twine bow.
Now, the true test. Will it really fit and look okay?
Yes!!! It looks great to me. It's a little odd - a book hanging on the wall, a little unexpected. But, I like it. Oh, you can see the canvas I added, as well. Something else I've seen around Pinterest, but not one specific pin inspired it, just a combination of ideas.
Thanks so much for reading!!
Lisa
Monday, July 30, 2012
June Photo a Day Challenge
So, I attempted to try Project Life this year, but my laptop died in February and I lost four weeks of photos and just decided to scrap it and do it next year. I regretted it, but couldn't help it. Didn't really know how to document what was missing though!
So, when I started playing with Instagram on my phone and saw people posting photo-a-day challenge photos, I got excited. I thought I could certainly handle one picture a day, right? Well, I made it the whole month and didn't miss one single day! Yay!
Here's the list of photos:
So here's my photos from June:
So, when I started playing with Instagram on my phone and saw people posting photo-a-day challenge photos, I got excited. I thought I could certainly handle one picture a day, right? Well, I made it the whole month and didn't miss one single day! Yay!
Here's the list of photos:
So here's my photos from June:
Morning
Empty
On my plate (well, a napkin - it's a snack)
Close-up
Sign
Hat
Drink
Remembered 6:00 at 9:00
Proof that I tried to get a 6:00 picture
Your view today
Best part of your weekend
Door
From a low angel
Art
Time
yellow
Out and about
In your bag
Something we don't know about you
Imperfect
Fave photo you've ever taken
Where you slept
From a high angle
Movement
On your mind
Something cute
Somewhere you shop
Bathroom
On the shelf
Soft
Friend
July is coming up, too -- and I'm ready to start August, too!!
Lisa
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